How to Remove Yourself from ThatsThem (2026 Guide)

Quick answer: Go to https://thatsthem.com/optout, fill in the removal form so it matches the listing you want taken down, then solve the CAPTCHA and click Submit. Free, about 10 minutes per record. Listings usually come down within 5 to 7 business days.

What is ThatsThem?

ThatsThem is a free lookup site with an unusually wide net. Type in a name, phone number, email, street address, or even an IP address, and it hands back a profile: age, home address, phone numbers, email addresses, family details, plus odd extras like a “wealth score” and a “donor score.” All of it sits in the open, no account needed. For an older adult, that one page bundles exactly what a phone scammer or junk-mail operation wants: a name, an age that marks them as a target, and the number to dial.

Before you start

The opt-out is free. Do not pay anyone to do this one site for you.

Have two browser tabs ready: one with the ThatsThem listing itself, one with the opt-out form. The form asks you to re-enter the record’s details (full name, email, street address, city, state, ZIP, phone), and ThatsThem says it uses those details to match the right record, so copy them over exactly as the listing displays them, typos included.

Doing this for a parent? Go right ahead. There is no identity check and no login, so you can fill out the form with their information and put your own email in the contact field. Ten minutes of typing buys them fewer spam calls, less junk mail, and fewer scam texts landing on their phone.

How to opt out of ThatsThem

1. Go to https://thatsthem.com and search by name plus city and state. If nothing turns up, try the phone number, address, or email search instead.
2. Find the right listing in the results and click “show full profile.” Keep this tab open.
3. In a second tab, open the opt-out form at https://thatsthem.com/optout.
4. Fill in every field to match the listing: full name, email address, street address, city, state, ZIP code, and phone number.
5. Complete the “I’m not a robot” CAPTCHA and click Submit.
6. Watch the inbox you entered for a little while. ThatsThem usually processes requests without any email step, but if a confirmation message does arrive, click the link inside so the request counts.
7. If the person has more than one record, repeat the whole thing for each. ThatsThem processes one record per request, and people who have moved a few times often have several.

Nobody tells you this going in: a family working through the broker list faces twenty-plus of these sites, each with its own form and its own quirk, and ThatsThem is simply the one you are on right now.

How long it takes

Third-party guides that walk this flow regularly (Incogni, updated 2026) report removal within 5 to 7 business days, and sometimes as fast as 24 to 72 hours. ThatsThem’s own opt-out page adds a caveat about search engines: your profile page may stay in Google’s or Bing’s index for more than 5 to 7 days after the listing itself is gone, and ThatsThem says that part is outside its control.

Check back in a few months

An opt-out removes the records you pointed at, not the ones that arrive later. When ThatsThem ingests a new batch of public data, a fresh listing can appear that your old request never touched, especially after a move or a new phone number. Put a note on the calendar to search the name again in about 90 days. KinKeeper’s Data Removal does this automatically across dozens of broker sites and re-checks every 90 days.